So many people were surprised when the
wedding pictures of the self acclaimed musical Taliban, Oritsefemi went
viral. Some even went as far as believing it was for a music video
simply because the singer opted for a quiet court wedding.
Talking about his marriage in a chat with Saturday Beats,
the singer said that it always upsets him when he hears that lack of
sex leads to the failure of some marriages in Nigeria. Using himself as
an example, he said that he can never deprive his wife of sex and
advised other married men to emulate him.
He said, “Marriage is something that you
have to be very diplomatic about. You have to be very careful and know
what you are doing because it has its ups and downs. No marriage is
perfect. Some people think that marriage is all about money but it is
not. It takes God and the couple to understand each other. Some people
talk about cheating in marriage and that is why I sang in my song,
‘Igbeyawo,’ that women should not starve their husband of sex. If you do
that, it would bring problems in your home. I don’t want lack of sex to
be a problem in my marriage. Any time my wife wants to have sex, I
would always give it to her, at any time.
“Sex should not be the problem. Money
could cause problems but don’t let sex be the problem. Get close to your
wife and try to understand when she needs it. As a wife, you also need
to know when your husband needs to have sex. It pains me when I hear
that lack of sex is the cause of some people’s marital crisis. I would
rather hear a woman say that she wants her husband to work harder.”
The singer told Saturday Beats
that he kept his court wedding to himself because he was involved in a
lot of controversies at that time. He further hinted that his white
wedding which is coming up in November would be an amazing experience.
“I kept my court wedding under wraps
because I was in a lot of controversies during that period and I was
also trying to work on my management. I was working on my brand image as
well. My wife is a very private person and if we had made it public, it
would have worked against us because sometimes when you share
information like this, anything can happen. I tried as much as possible
to keep it to myself especially because my wife loves her privacy. It
was my idea to make it private and when I spoke to my wife about it, she
agreed. At the end of the day, the information still leaked. I am still
going to have an elaborate white wedding in Nigeria on November 25. I
could have decided to do the wedding outside Nigeria but I am a man of
the people. When I got to the event centre, I told them that I would be
expecting at least 2,000 people but they told me that they believe that
at least 3,000 people would be at the wedding, so they volunteered to
cater for the other 1,000 people that may come for the wedding free of
charge. My wedding is going to be amazing and it would be strictly by
invitation. I already have a song about wedding and people would want me
to perform on my wedding day but I would do something different,” he
said.
The Mr. Gomina singer who already has
two children from two women explained how his wife has been able to
unite the family. “There is one great thing I love about my wife, she is
very respectful. If you respect people, they would return the same
gesture. I love her for the fact that she has the ability to unite my
family. Whenever she is talking to my baby mamas, she respects them and
they respect her in return. She takes care of my two children as if they
are hers. She takes them to school and even represents them if need be.
She advises them and she is so supportive. She is hard working.
Although she has her Master’s degree from a school in London, she is
also full of ideas. She is someone I can talk to about some business
ideas and she would listen and understand,” he said.
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